In His Own Words
About Him
I’m not here to play the numbers game or chase hearts that fade the same; I want the spark that whispers slowly, the kind of love that wants to grow. I believe it starts before we even touch, in laughter that feels like too much and in words that linger long after night, where silence still feels right. I’m the kind who listens more than I speak, who finds strength in the meek, and I don’t need drama or the crowd—just quiet love that sings out loud. It’s about finding someone who feels the same, where kindness shines and hearts can heal, that’s how I know it’s something real. I love like it’s rare, not a game, and I live like it’s art, needing no acclaim; I’m here for moments no one can steal—for laughter, for truth, for something real. I feel deeply but laugh with ease, finding calm in honesty, unafraid of quiet nights where peace and warmth replace fights. I’ll make you safe just being you, with every word and every truth, no masks to wear, no games to play, steady love that wants to stay. If you want someone awake inside, who loves with heart and quiet pride, maybe I’m not just passing through—maybe I’m what your heart once knew. No filters, no rush, no borrowed light, just two souls meeting in the quiet night, where words run deep and smiles reveal the beauty of love that’s truly real. I’m here to call your name; if you feel that spark, you’ll know the deal. Maybe we’ve both been waiting for something real.
About His Ideal Match
I’m not the tallest in the room, but I’ll lift your heart if you let me. No games, no chase, no masks—just a guy who’s real and who cares. I cook, I laugh, I take my time, finding peace in quiet moments, a walk on the beach, a song at night, a bit of silly, a bit of light. I’m guided by heart, easy-going and steady, a touch of wild, a touch of shy, with a goofy grin and watchful eye. I’m not chasing gold or fame, just looking for a soul that shines in simple things. I work with my hands, build, mend, listen closely, and love my dog; I talk to stars and find joy in who we are. Sometimes quiet, sometimes loud, I’d trade the crowd for peace of mind and love that lasts through space and time. I don’t need sparks that fade fast—I want a fire that feels like home, even when we’re alone. I’m just plain me, in worn-out jeans, with hopeful eyes, steady dreams, and a heart that’s free. No filters, no act, no grand design—just truth, laughter, and honest love. If you’re real and kind, you’ll understand me, and that’s all I’ll ever need to be. Maybe I’m not what you’d expect, but I’m enough: just plain me.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Balding | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 175cm (5' 8.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Mild; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Making Music; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket; Hiking; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Eden Matchmaker: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |