In His Own Words
About Him
The reason why it's important to get to know people is for building more connections. Connections are important for your everyday life but they're even more important when you're in a situation where you can't do something all on your own
About His Ideal Match
An ideal partner is respectful of and sensitive to the other, having uniquely individual goals and priorities. Ideal partners value the other's interests separate from their own. They feel congenial toward and supportive of one another's overall goals in life
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Mossel Bay (George,Thembalethu), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
30 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
20 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 200cm (6' 6.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; Indian; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Sepedi; Swati; Tswana; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Partnered | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Haven't completed high / secondary school; Some University / College | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Soap operas; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Computer programming; Reading; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Boxing; Rugby; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
I don't have any family! |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using Eden Matchmaker: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |