In His Own Words
About Him
First of all, I am a single dad of 3 beautiful young kids of 12,8 and 6. I am family orientated and don't hang out in clubs and bars. I don't have a mansion or sport cars, yet. But what I can offer is love, respect and stability. I lost almost everything during covid but slowly started rebuilding my life. It is not always easy raising 3 young kids on my own, but I will never trade it for anything else. My kids are my joy but I feel so empty and lonely.
About His Ideal Match
Looking for a kind hearted girl that will bring out the good in me and that will accept my kids as her own (their mother passed away). I am not looking for a nanny. I want someone that I can grow old with. I don't care about your past, everybody has one. I just want honesty and loyalty. And no secrets. I want someone that I can just hold, love and build a future with. Someone to laugh with.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
190cm (6' 2.8") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
South Africa; Ukraine | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; Crime; History; Religious; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Game shows; Motoring; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Making Music; Photography; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Darts; Fishing; Hiking; Hunting; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Rowing; Shooting; Squash; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
