In Her Own Words
About Her
My friends describe me as the type of person who gets along with everyone, someone with strong values, honest and sincere, someone who loves God and family (to me even a friend can be family). My friends sees me as someone who they can confide in who will always go the extra mile to be there when they need me. I am a lover of people and I don't judge them by their skin color, beliefs or appearance.
I like people who has the same values as me, I hate dishonesty and people who pretends to be someone they are not (it is anyway too much effort to be two people when you can only be yourself!)
I love to write (hopefully one day I will have enough courage to write something to publish), I love to inspire people either with positivity, messages of hope or with the Word, I sing (but not professionally) and I try and make at least one person smile each day as there is way too much sadness in this world.
I am someone who loves the familiar things in life but I am ready for adventure, someone who can take me out of my comfort zone and challenge me to do new and exciting things. Please understand I am not a beauty, I am not perfect I have flaws and scars but it's mine and I am proud of it! I am not ordinary but not wild either.... I am the type of person who you just can't help to fall in love with - for my passion my spirit my curiosity for life and my ability to just be me; always the same person. Love to dance in the kitchen while making dinner or cleaning house, sometimes even sing in the shower and still gets excited about being spoiled on my birthday or Christmas🤭
I don't turn heads for being a beauty or wearing the perfect outfit.... I turn heads because I am the better kind of beautiful.... The kind that never fades!
About Her Ideal Match
I am searching for honesty, unconditional love, respect, communication, intellect, passion, somebody who will see me as his priority and never make me feel that I don't matter.
I want to laugh with you, cry with you, get excited with you, have intelligent conversations with you, have adventures with you, see new places with you, be silly with you, do spur of the moment things with you, plan vacations with you, have family get togethers with you, know your friends and be proudly by your side.... But you must also understand that we need our personal time apart sometimes. Most of all I want to have quiet times with you, movie nights at home and even the times where we can just be together without having to speak just being comfortable in each other's presence.
I don't want to be disappointed again. I want a "what you see is what you get" type of man, someone who won't be afraid to have his own opinions and views on life. I want someone stable and someone who can make wise decisions about the future with me. Someone I can spoil with small acts of my love for him, someone I can proudly call mine and someone who's not shy when it comes to show his love for me in public. Someone to have a beautiful new chapter with. I think at this age I am way passed the good time relationships, the games and lies. I want to have someone who values me as I will do them and is in this thing with the intention of getting to know me for who I am not for my looks, because reality is gravity took its toll and I am a mother so I am not the picture perfect woman. If you are looking for that please scroll passed my name.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Paarl, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Western Cape; Eastern Cape; Northern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 53 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Jewish | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Crime; Religious |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Soap operas |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Long hair; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Eden Matchmaker: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
