In His Own Words
About Him
First Off - I am on Pasmaats also, which I think is the same site as this just the afrikaans version.
I feel like skipping this part and just saying, message me and find out, usually typing or saying too much scares people off in my experience, but here is some info on me.
I enjoy camping, riding boats, some water sports. I enjoy making fire and having a braai or making a nice potjie on the coals etc
I enjoy walking my dog, love my cats and cycling too.
I always enjoyed technology and computers, its a major interest to me, I enjoy gaming with pals online occasionally.
I am not a geek who can't work with his hands either. I do many odds and ends and have made several of my own furniture even.
I don't like large crowds of people and attach high value to a real friends who I will go through hell and back for, but I am not socially awkward either, I get on with everyone and can chat openly and easily.
On the deeper side of things:
I am honest, maybe too a fault, I don´t give up, not on a person, especially someone I care about. I want to forgive always.
I am steadfast, caring and enjoy making people laugh. I like to reason and not just accept a thing nor expect anyone else to, I want to know a person and want them to know me, so ask, communicate ;)
I was raised in a traditional manner, my belief in God is not only words but is where the root of my values and morals stem from.
I am not an angel nor without sin (who is), but I am genuine and consistent (if that makes sense)
I want more from my life and want to share and experience it with a special someone.
About His Ideal Match
There is much I would desire but no one is perfect, I am not and I don't expect it either, but here are some things I value.
Honesty, with yourself first and then with the next person.
Probably the most important things to me is consideration, fairness and being reasonable.
Willingness to adapt and see reason. Talk openly but also willing to listen, adapt if need be and patience to teach at the same time.
There can be said much more but start with contacting me and finding out.
What His Friends Say
Kerry said...
Here is my honest, feminal opinion of Nick. I have known Nick for about 6 months or so and during that period have gotten to know him quite well.
My first impression of Nick was, hhmmm, this one is a bit prickly. But over time I realised, this is just a front he initially puts up until he is comfortable with you, in order to protect his kind, caring and thoughtful soul. If you are looking for a man you can have open conversations with, even the difficult ones, then look no further. Nick will challenge you from all fronts, so you need to be a mature, self assured, intelligent woman with a strength of character that will match his own.
Nick is above all else, honest, which is something I value highly. His honesty comes from a good place, it is typically never malicious and is given in a sincere manner to try help you. Nick has his own strong morals and values, but is open minded enough to consider viewpoints from another's perspective. He is intelligent, with a great sense of humour. He is considerate and always tries to take into account your feelings about things. If he accidentally does or says something to offend or upset you, his is mature enough to realise this and will apologise in a sincere manner.
Nick may not be the social butterfly, but is an awesome person to spend time with. I have really enjoyed the time I've spent with him because he is intelligent, funny, challenges me and has taught me a lot about myself in the process.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Mossel Bay (Danabaai), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
184cm (6' 0.4") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Mossel Bay (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 35 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 183cm (6' 0.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Disappearing; It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Gardening; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Baseball; Basketball; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Bowls; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Fencing; Fishing; Hiking; Hunting; Kitesurfing; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rowing; Rugby; Shooting; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Eden Matchmaker: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Very |
