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OutsideDaBoxSailor

63 – Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa

Practical? Gatvol? Escape to another World & Lifestyle with me.

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Online: A week ago

Modified: 22 April 2018

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
63
Star Sign:
Taurus
Height:
183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Blonde
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans
Other Languages:
English
Religion:
Christian / Protestant
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Regular
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Technical Diploma
Occupation:
Transportation
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
45 - 65
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Slim; Athletic
Looks:
Beauty contest winner
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Spanish
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

We-all know the definition of Crazy - repeating the same thing, expecting a different result.
............So are you really willing to gamble with the last years of your life - trying to find that elusive man-clone? You know - romantic-like-you, always-softspoken, moonlight, walk-a-beach, candles, etc. If it didn't happen by now, deep-down you KNOW it's not gonna happen. So a different angle of approach?

I'm ever-optimistic, but also a realist - seeking a woman with just a few traits. 1st become friends, then buddies, then homies - as we discover and develop more similarities - and love will surely seep in. ENTER Pareto's 80/20 principle - if we end with 80% likes, then ride out the 20% dislikes. Believe me, I had it happen in my 20's-30's, until she passed away 20yrs ago.

Escape to which Other-World?
Plan-A - Escape to own blessedse island - which can sail away when the view, neighborhood, or society becomes a pain. With 20/20 hindsight of my int'l travels - the VISITS were a jol/party - yet LIVING in any society is slavery. The Gov's, Corp's, and any Society do their best to rob you blind. Merely butterfly-touching the surfaces on-vacation don't get you involved in any local BS-officepolitics.
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So I've been saving "determinedly" (Taurus' isn't stubborn, grin), and will buy a luxury 40ft sailing-catamaran in 2020 (in 2yrs). Then retire my mid-30's son-&-girlfriend, and daughter-hubby-&-grandson - and go cruise between 100's-of-islands in the Caribbean (many uninhabited).
.........After learning-to-sail in Table Bay, one of the most dangerous places in the world - plus navigate-&-sail across the Atlantic to the Caribb - this little calm Caribb-sea is like a plaas-pond. It's only approx 5% sailing to hop to another island/country - and 95% lying at anchor somewhere.

About His Ideal Match

Nottoworry - where there's a town, there's hair/nail salons - a slew of preventative and cures for seasickness - and safe procedures are practiced. I'm (considered) crazy, not stoopid.

Toworry - won't have $500pm income? What were you planning for retirement anyway?
- Nottoworry - I have a few suggestions. HA! it's no free-ride. But you'll have to become indispensably likable.

I left Cape Town 20yrs ago - with sober Christian gentleman's high values. Apparently ol' farts my age nowadays want a NurseChefHousekeeperRemoteControlDetecto r. Stoopid - because many women offer so much more, and I "determinedly" won't settle for less.
.........The nurse-thing is a No-No - they stuff one full of medicine for a mere sniffle. PART-TIME Chef and Housekeeper is a must (all tasks onboard are shared) - and the only RemoteControl onboard is for the electric anchor-winch, while there's a place for everything and everything in it's place.

Can-Do, handy/artsy is top priority - or willing to learn like me. Tomboy anyone? Does Voortrekkers, Settlers ring a bell? No, we're not camping the wild - but self-sustainability means freedom - even with electric dough-kneader and sewing-machine. Unlike an expensive-to-run camper-across-1country - we'll grow some potted-veggies as we internationally travel our wind-is-free sailing HOME.
.........Google's practical zodiac-signs - I prefer Taurus (like me), or Aries (I'm strongly influenced). Libra (my daughter) can get anally outta-wack - the only known Sagittarius is dramaqueen-like - and if Gemini can't stick to The Plan, bring a return-ticket.
.........To no surprise - someone NOT overweight (too much), or LOOKING like someone's crinkle-cut grand-maw. I'm reasonably athletic - albeit with an almost-pregnancy and need a push-up bra - but brand-new teeth and most of my hair.
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.........Age range from mature without sucking-baggage - to not much wiser than myself.

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short; Straight
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intellectually Challenged
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
The life of the party
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Self-control
Fashion Sense:
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush)
Favourite Clothing:
My swimming trunks / bikini
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Dance / Disco; Reggae; Rock
Reading:
I love it
Books:
Self-help
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
TV Shows:
Movie Channels
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online.
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Sewing
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Badminton; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Bowls; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Darts; Inline / Roller skating; Kitesurfing; Martial arts; Pool; Rowing; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Doesn't matter; Indian; Seafood; South African; Sushi
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I DO have a bed in my office!
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
Not at all
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like them Well Done ;)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Power; Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Fire the boss
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Other
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement Plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Feelings about using Eden Matchmaker:
Hopeful; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely