In Her Own Words
About Her
So when you get to my age as a successful business owner, a successful sportsperson and a strong, independent woman, the reason for wanting to meet that special someone is to share things in life with. I do not have to have a partner for material purposes or to look after me, but it would be great to meet someone who shares common interests, who I can laugh with, cry with, get angry with and be myself with. Someone who gets me ...
I am able to be vulnerable with a man who is confident and makes me feel safe. You don't want to be dishonest and lie to me ever, as that is one quality I do not tolerate in the slightest.
I am loyal, loving, honest, reliable, responsible and selfless. I give more than I take and I don't expect much. I am a low maintenance woman who is as comfortable in jeans and gumboots, as I am in heels and dressed up for dinner in a fancy restaurant.
I won't embarrass you....if you allow me, I will only make you proud.
I am a bush baby rather than a beach bum....
I will go walk in nature rather than in a mall....
I will sit outside under the stars rather than in front of the television...
I will drive to anywhere in Africa rather than fly....
I am very spontaneous rather than having everything planned...
I love camping.... Free camping... No tent...
I love music... And to dance to music... To be free....to be me.... with you?
About Her Ideal Match
A man who is true to himself, knows who and what he is and does not pretend to be anything else. A man who is willing to respect and accept a woman into his life who might challenge him on issues and topics without making him feel defensive or aggressive. A man who is successful in his own right and does not feel the need to have to prove himself to anyone. Humility is one of the most telling characteristics of any human being and one I believe tells me the most.
Important to me, too, is to be with someone who is passionate about something.... Anything.... He needs to understand passion in order to understand me and my passion. I have found that spending time with people who have nothing to be passionate about is difficult, as I am a very passionate person, and it takes one to know one. This also includes being passionate about animals, because that is what I am all about.
If you are a recovering alcoholic/addict, please move on, as I am not equipped to deal with this.
If you need someone to supply you with accommodation, three meals, wifi, beautiful surroundings, a car etc, please also move on. I am very happy to share what I have, but I do not like to be taken advantage of.
If you need a sex buddy I am also not your person as I have enough integrity and dignity not to be defined by the physical and be someone's object to please their physical needs only.
I want someone who can laugh... Have fun... Be silly and stupid and just to be who you are...
Life is today, so let's live it...
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Namibia | |
Location: |
Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; French; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") - 201cm (6' 7.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Greying; Grey; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Norwegian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
A professional athlete |
Sports: |
Camping; Fishing; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free; Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Eden Matchmaker: |
Hopeful; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |